Looking for 'The One'

 I thought I would tell you the story of how I went about finding my wedding dress and share some of my favourite dresses that are still available to purchase from Blush - the gorgeous Belfast-based boutique where I bought my wedding dress.   This is perfect timing, because Blush are about to have a major refurb and are currently selling off about 80% of their bridal stock at huge discounts.  This includes dresses from their 2018 collection!  There are loads of dresses that are suitable for every season, so if you or a friend are looking for a wedding dress, now is the perfect time to shop the Blush collection! Go, go, go!

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I had no idea what style I wanted for my wedding dress, which made shopping for it all the more fun because I could try on everything until I found 'the one'.  

My approach to planning our wedding was simple.  I wanted to make the whole process as stress free, as laid back and as fun as possible.  I knew it was a once in a life time (fingers crossed) opportunity and I didn't want my experience to be tainted by any hint of bridezilla. 

Blush was the first boutique that I visited on my hunt.  On entering, I was greeted by huge smiles and welcoming faces.  I was so nervous and felt completely clueless about what I was looking for.  Being so used to wearing black, I thought that wedding dresses would be totally unflattering and unforgiving!  I took along my best friend, my two sisters and my mum.  The women in my family know what they like and they're not scared of giving their opinon (nor am I - you might have realised this by now), so I knew that my trying on process would be quick, it would be a Marmite reaction, love it or hate it. 

My bridal consultant, Fiona (great name), took us into the bridal room and immediately made me feel at ease.  When she asked what style I liked or who my favourite bridal designers were, I looked at her blankly - I had no idea.  All I knew was that I didn't want a traditional A-line wedding dress and wanted something that would suit our rustic Italian wedding.  Fiona took me over to the rails and we started to hunt through the beautiful fabrics, until I found a few (eight) dresses that I wanted to try on.  The thing that made it easy is that Fiona and I had exactly the same taste. 

The styles that Blush choose are stunning. They house some well known desginers. such as, David Fielden, La Sposa and Martina Liana.  Being a princess at heart, I was immediately drawn to this showstopper with a full tulle skirt.  La Sposa's "Penelope" dress is pretty exquisite.  It has a two-piece effect with a sheer lace body that can be played down with a detachable lining.  Personally, I much preferred it without the lining.  I didn't think it looked too bare at all andI felt completely comfortable in it.  If I were getting married in the winter, I would race to buy this dress.  I took a few (five) Boomerangs of me swooshing this skirt, so I can confirm that this is an Instagram-worthy dress!


They also have a few U.K. based designers, such as, Alan Hannah and Kevan Jon.  It means that if you choose a U.K. based designer, almost every dress can be completely customised to your taste.  So if you like the shape and style of one dress, but prefer the fabric of another, they can customise it so that you have your dream dress!  In fact, one of my favourite dresses from this year is Alan Hannah's pink strapless ballgown called "Anna" and it is exclusive to Blush!  I love a wedding dress that has a wow factor and shows your best assets, and for me, this ticked all the boxes.  The dress is corseted and makes your waist look teeny tiny, which is a dream for someone like me because I have very little waist and would love an hourglass figure.  The colour is just an absolute dream - picture this with a cathedral length ivory veil.  It is just stunning.  

If you're like me and think a wedding day is a great opportunity to get a new pair of designer shoes, you'll want to show them off!  Jimmy Choo's slogan of 'Say I do in Choo' complete won me over and I decided that they were the only shoes I wanted. Alan Hannah's "Cherie" is an ivory silk organza dress that sweeps high to low - beautifully showing off any new shoes.  The dress is dramatic, but simple.  The gingham print on the organza is so unique and something I really didn't think I would like, but I was immediately drawn to it.  There's something about this design that reminded me of Carrie Bradshaw's wedding dress (Google it, you will see what I mean) - but of course, this dress will come with a lot more luck than hers did! 


If you haven't noticed by now, I am a sucker for a backless dress.  This Martina Liana "Lexi" dress is made from seven different types of lace - talk about intricate detail! The low sweeping back leads to tiny little buttons, which are framed by the dramatic lines of the lace.  It is a pretty great shape around your bum, which is complimented by long flowing train.  The sweetheart necking is the sexy cherry on top.  This dress longs for an entrance.  I can just imagine someone walking up a long aisle with the piles of lace following behind.


During my first visit to Blush, the second dress that I tried on was a David Fielden, ivory, hand-sewn lace dress.  It was simple, elegant, a little bit sexy and perfect for an Italian wedding.  Everything that I thought I wanted in a dress disappeared, this was my wedding dress.  My bridal party swooned and said it was 'The One'.  I totally agreed, but who finds their dress in the first boutique they visit?! 

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Like a typical stereotype, I felt the need to visit more boutiques in different cities and try on over 20 more dresses before racing back to Blush to get my dress.  What sealed the deal for me, is the moment I visited a very popular wedding boutique and dealt with a monster of an owner.  I was greeted with a plastic smile, shown dresses that she thought I would like (I didn't get to choose) and then made comments about my body while I tried on wedding dresses.  It wasn't the dreamy bridal experience I was looking for.  After the game-changing experience of shopping in Blush, and all of their wonderful words of encouragement, I knew I had to go back to get my dress.  I longed to be back in the gorgeous little boutique that made me feel like the only bride in Belfast and I was ready to commit. 

My dress fitted me perfectly, it didn't need taken in or altered - it only needed taken up because my legs refused to grow to super model length.  It was effortless to wear, I could walk with ease, eat loads, drink more and dance the night away - all while being completely comfortable. 

The best thing was seeing Andy's face when I walked down the aisle.   The church must have been dusty, because my non-emotional husband, let a single tear (almost) escape from his eye.  I knew by his face that I had picked the perfect dress.

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It was so amazing after months of keeping it secret, finally getting to show him my dress!  I couldn't wait to have some time alone together to hear what he thought about it.

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When I was trying on dresses, I would dance about the shop a bit, sit down, do a little wiggle, etc. because I wanted to make sure that whatever dress I chose, I would feel like I was wearing the dress, instead of the dress wearing me.  I felt totally at ease in my dress - I think it is key to feeling relaxed on your wedding day.  Never once did I feel it nip me at the waist, rub at my shoulders or be so tight that I couldn't eat.  I didn't think about it at all, and that's maybe why the smile didn't leave my face all day long!  

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I wanted to choose bridesmaid dresses that complimented the design of my wedding dress.  My friend is the owner of Jarlo, so I was delighted to choose bridesmaid dresses from her range.  I two different designs in soft grey.  Both backless and both incredible around the bum - my girls could have given Pippa Middelton a serious run for her money!

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One of my favourite elements of my dress were the tiny lace polka dots.  When the girls at Blush told me that the lace on my David Fielden dress was all made by hand, I could only imagine the hour of work going into each and every single little polka dot - it made me appreciate it that much more!

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I would recommend making an appointment as soon as possible to shop the Blush sale.  If you book a private appointment, you can even bring along a bottle of bubbles to make the experience even more special.  This isn't something that you can normally do in Northern Ireland and at least when you find your dress, you will have something to cheers over! 


Make sure to let me know if you find your dress in Blush!  Happy dress hunting - enjoy every moment of it (and don't forget the bubbles!).  A huge thank you to Aileen, Fiona and all of the girls at Blush for making my experience so incredible!